Last night, Rick surprised me with a new pair of closed -toe step-ins....and he knows the kind I like. Nothing expensive, but, of course, I appreciated his gesture very much. I never realized that he has been noticing that I keep on wearing the almost worn-out same black step ins frequently. I am no "Imelda Marcos" but I do have several pairs of shoes in various colors: black, white, beige, red, and pink. Yet, I am sure dear readers that we do have preferences in our wardrobes to the point that oftentimes we never care to wear or use some things we have bought and end up giving them away.
Rick once asked me why my "step ins" seem so worn out, yet I keep on wearing them...and I told him matter-of-factly that they were once sling backs, that one day, when the left shoe sling snapped beyond repair, I cut the right foot's sling to make it even. That "magic" converted the shoes into step ins...and really no one can know the difference. Not that I can't afford to buy a new pair---but I like the comfort and its fit.
After dinner, I told Rick it was once my practice to "pay" anyone who gifts me with any footwear...he asked why was there a need to do that (I think this is the 2nd time he has given me a new pair of shoes). I explained that --that practice was a Filipino superstitious belief so that the giver and the recipient will not quarrel, fight, argue, separate, etc. ...My Christian belief has made me shed off a lot of supertitious beliefs that I practiced before becoming a Christian. Then upon his asking, I enumerated a lot of our typical Pinoy superstitious beliefs:
-Do not sweep the floors at night - one's fortunes will be swept away
- Do not sing while cooking (in front of a stove) - the person will be an old maid
- Turning one's plate a full circle when someone leaves and goes out of the door - the person who left will have bad luck.
- Never position your bed with your feet towards the door - bad luck for the bed user.
- Never build a house that runs right into a street end - the inhabitants will have bad luck.
- Never position your house entrance stairs straight out to the street - fortune goes out!
- Your flight of stairs must not end in a "mata" - as you count oro, plata, mata
- It is bad luck to see a black butterfly (bad luck)
- Do not have or plant the Kalachuchi flowering tree in front of your house (bad luck)
- It is good fortune to have the Makopa tree in front of your house (good luck)
- Wear polka dotted dress/shirt on New Year's Eve - good fortune
- Have rounded fruits on the dining table on New Year's eve
And so on, and so on-----that I can fill up a whole page if I listed them all!
Well, we all know that one's fate is entirely and absolutely up to our Creator---but we still have a lot of kababayans who believe in these superstitions--- I don't anymore...
Do you? - I hope not!